I'm closeted -- deeply closeted. Please don't tell me I shouldn't be or don't have to be. It's a decision I've made and I'm comfortable with it. If you're not, I understand that and respect your decision; please respect mine.

I'm athletic -- 6'3, 200, muscled. I'm actively bi, with a number of female acquaintances and a very small number of guys, who are as discreet as I am.

I enjoy cyber, and I think I'm good at it. I'm a top -- sometimes tender and gentle, sometimes aggressive. Either way works. I'm not a sadist, not a daddy (and don't want to be), not into guys who aren't masculine and, preferably, athletic. Too large an age gap (in either direction) is kind of creepy to me. And if you're interested in being "raped," I'm definitely not your guy. Same deal if incest is your thing. It's not mine, and I won't hesitate to block you if you try to go down that road.

If you think you'd like to get it on with cyber, terrific. Understand it won't go beyond that. But it'll be fun while it happens.